Part One-Paradigms and Principles/ Part Two Private Victory

Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,- is a great book to read. "The inside-out approach says that private victories precede public victories, that making and keeping promises to ourselves precedes making and keeping promises to others. It says it is futile to put personality ahead of character, to try to improve relationships with others before improving ourselves." Covey's explained Habits 1, 2, 3; I was able to follow Habits 1&2, and Habit 3 was confusing to me. I need read Habit 3 again.